Perception is Reality
by Grandmaster Wong Kiew Kit
Many
problems or misunderstanding arise because of confusion between facts and opinions.
Logically, if you can differentiate between facts and opinions, you will be
able to avoid or overcome many of these problems and misunderstanding.
What
is even more important is that often opinion, or perception, is more
influential than fact, or reality, in shaping our future. This does not mean we
can ignore facts, but we must realize that a person's perception of reality rather
than the reality itself is more potent in determining the outcome of an event.
Failure to appreciate this often results in problems and misunderstandings,
which can be avoided or overcome if we have clear perception.
Let
us start with a story. A sifu asked a student to practice "One-Finger
Shooting Zen". A week passed, a month passed, two years passed, and the
student was still practicing "One-Finger Shooting Zen" daily, while
his sifu hardly taught him anything else.
This
was a real story, the story of my sifu, Ho Fatt Nam, when he learned from my
sigung, Yeong Fatt Khun. The daily practice of "One-Finger Shooting
Zen" enabled my sifu to develop tremendous force not only for Dim Mak (an
advanced kungfu art of dotting vital points) but also to heal people.
My
sifu had a good perception. He promised himself that if he met a great master,
he would do exactly what the master taught. Most other students would drop out.
They had different perceptions. They probably thought that the master was
fooling them. The reality was the same, a sifu asking his student to practice
"One-Finger Shooting Zen" and hardly teaching him anything else, but
due to different perceptions the results could be vastly different.
You
can see the same principle operating in daily life though many people may not
realize it. You are given a difficult job by your boss. Because you are a
Shaolin Wahnam student and view everything the Shaolin Wahnam way (instead of
the negative way), you perceive your difficult job as an interesting challenge and
do your best. As a result you later gain a promotion - by your boss or by
yourself becoming your own boss after having gone through challenging training.
Most
other people in the same situation would have different perceptions. Some would
try to pass the job to someone else, like you, knowing that they would still
get the same pay. Others might do the job grudgingly and produce mediocre or
poor result. The reality is the same - a difficult job to be done - but due to
different perceptions of the same reality, the outcome can be very different.
Can
the perception be always positive? Can there be any events, persons or beliefs
that are so negative that you can't have any positive perception of them?
Yes,
perception can always be positive if you choose to. It is your choice.
No,
there are no events, persons or beliefs that are by themselves so negative that
you can't have a positive perception of. We are talking about perception, not
the reality itself. In reality the event, person or belief can be negative, but
you still can have a positive perception of it.
Suppose
you have lost a lot of money in a bad investment. This is reality. No matter
how you perceive it, you cannot change the fact that you have lost a lot of
money. But your perception of this negative event will certainly and strongly
affect what and how your future will enfold.
We
may broadly generalize your possible perceptions into three categories:
negative, neutral and positive.
You
may perceive yourself as stupid, and you become depressed. You may perceive
that the fault actually lies with your wife, who nags you, and you become
angry. These are negative perceptions. And it is not difficult to see how
miserable these negative perceptions will make you.
You
may perceive it as a way of life, sometimes you lose, and sometimes you gain.
Or you may perceive that losing money is a price everyone pays to learn about
investment. These are neutral perceptions. You may be down for a
while, but eventually you can get over it.
You
may perceive it philosophically, regarding it a blessing in disguise. It is a
wake-up call: you lose money in investment, not in drugs or gambling, which may
make you addicted and is far worse. Or you may perceive it as a drastic
learning opportunity. You promise yourself that eventually you will make back
many times that money in an honest, wholesome way. These are positive
perceptions that will lead to eventual success. Indeed, many people owe their
success, spiritual or financial, to some initial setbacks.
If
we just think of good things, are we just dreaming? No, we are not just
dreaming. We dare to dream, but we are ready and capable of putting in effort
to make our dreams come true. Our Shaolin Wahnam training gives us mental
clarity that enables us to have noble perceptions, and tremendous energy that
enables us to put in the necessary effort.
Thoughts
create reality. This is a great cosmic truth taught by ancient masters and
confirmed by modern scientists. An electron is a particle or a wave depending
on how the investigating scientist thinks about it. The Buddha teaches that
karma, which means cause and effect, is the result of thoughts, speech and
deeds in that order of importance.
So, whatever events,
persons, beliefs, problems or difficulties you interact with, always have
positive perceptions of them. Try it out for a month, and examine the result
yourself.
